Get the Jurisdiction Map
Sort the situation before deciding what to do.
What is happening?
Name the observable facts without interpretation, prediction, or blame.
What belongs to them?
Separate another person’s choices, feelings, and recovery from your own responsibility.
A one-page worksheet for clearer boundaries
The Jurisdiction Map helps you separate observable facts, what belongs to the other person, what requires shared participation, and what is within your control.
Four clear jurisdictions
Use it when fear makes everything feel like your job.
Sort the situation first. Then decide what is yours to do—and what is not.
What is happening
Record what you can observe before deciding what it means.
What belongs to them
Return another person’s choices, feelings, and consequences to their jurisdiction.
What is shared—and what is mine
See where cooperation is required, then choose the actions and boundaries that are yours.
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